It's been almost 8 years since I was here
If my memory serves, I was super suprised by a guy that stays in USA just so to get his green card.
The same situation applies to me
Got my I140 approved on 8/24/2016, one step closer to be Greened.
Still needs to pray about I485 tho
WHY WE MAY MARRY THE WRONG PERSON
March 12, 2015 at 11:09pm
Though we may tend to think of marriage as perfection and that happy ending, it’s not always that way. Even if you may aspire to have that happiness, it can’t possibly transpire if you marry the wrong person. You know that you’ve seen this couple before, the one that is mismatched on every level. You may even be living through such a relationship and ill-fated marriage. It may make you wonder just why so many people end up marrying the wrong person in the first place.
Aside from the fact that some people simply shouldn’t be together, what else goes wrong here? How can even the smartest people make the mistake of marrying somebody that they are so clearly mismatched with? There are a variety of reasons that we marry the wrong person, and we’ll explore those in depth. In the end it’s a matter of making a bad decision and choosing love at the moment over thinking through the future on a more practical level.
「堅持下去，並不是我們真的足夠堅強，而是我們別無選擇。並不是我們喜歡一件事情就可以把它做好，而是我們在做的時候，學會了喜歡它。我沒有別的，只有熱血，辛勞，眼淚和汗水可以奉獻。這些都是我最寶貴的財富。 請記住：永遠永遠永遠都不要放棄你自己。」— 邱吉爾
世界上有兩件事情，是不需要刻意的去告訴別人的，一個是你的夢想、另一個是你愛的人，當你決定要去做一件事，如果你愛上了那麼一個人，無需刻意的去炫耀，也請不要宣揚，只需要安安靜靜的去行動去愛。
第一件事，關於夢想。那是一件自己和自己的事，所有的成敗是自己去感受自己去承擔，不要因為你一時的虛榮心而炫耀，你唯一需要證明的只有自己，冷暖自知。
1.一天到晚糾正你毛病的人，往往是最愛你的
有句話說：「治的了你脾氣的是你愛的人，受的了你脾氣的是愛你的人。」
愛情還是友情，不是一輩子都永遠不吵架，而是即使吵了一輩子，也不會分開，那個總是一天到晚糾正你毛病的人，往往是最愛你的那個。
http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/240359
DECEMBER 02, 2014
LinkedIn Influencer, Jeff Haden, published this post originally on LinkedIn.
Perspective is a funny thing. Look forward and the path seems uncertain, the future unpredictable. Look back and all the dots seem to connect... except the dots that mark the choices you didn't make and the risks you didn't take.
A good relationship requires two constants; constant communication and constant trust.
在現今的社會，教育存在為的是提供所有的選擇，即使並不是每個選擇都那麼好，每個人都要為自己做的決定負責，
負責任是每個人都應該要學習的課題；
在保守的社會文化裡，人是不被允許做出錯誤的決定，只能跟著長輩「對」的決定走
年輕的世代就是教育上的錯誤，讓他們無法對自己的人生決定負責。
Snowboarding is an activity that makes you crazy and addict to it.
Especially for those who residence miles away from the resort.
Since I will become one of the residence soon, my snowboarder pro dream will be fulfilled, thanks God:)
1st snowboarding
Honey+Water and fruit Juice+Wulnut, pecan and almond
Oster glass blender Rocks! Love it!
Prepare the juice only if you will be drinking it immediately or a few seconds after.
Wake up 30 mins earlier to prepare and drink it slowly.
Temecula Valley
Bold wines
2014
May 30, May 31 & June 1
BALLOON & WINE FESTIVAL
At some point we all get involved in a serious relationship, be it falling in love with a significant other, or simply establishing an amazingly close friendship. As soon as this relationship is in place, both parties must do their part to nurture it. When they fail to do so, solidarity is gradually replaced with suffering.
Although I sincerely hope your closest relationships are not suffering, if you have found yourself in this kind of predicament (as we all do sometimes), chances are the problem can be traced back to one or a few causes. If your relationships are all rainbows and butterflies right now, consider yourself lucky – this list will simply provide some good food for thought.
1. Presumed expectations about how someone “should be.”
It's been a while since last follow of a Japanese drama.
What caught my eye is what drove the Actor to fight against higher management : make a better world.
It is like a butterfly effect, your small move ended up with an affect to others.
Always ask yourself "Does the world become better today because of you?"
Life is filled with the test, power, money, control in relationship, the world business, how people look at us, those sort of things.
The main reason to get a promotion is about who sees your potential to be the value-added asset to the company.
Joseph went from slavery to a powerful king.
Therefore, we must make use of every moment and nurture it with affection, tenderness, beauty, creativity, and laughter.
學會停止。給自己的情感和真實思想留下時間。是什麼在驅使自己不停地工作， 找到這種擔心，並直接面對。
不要讓自己的行動變成機械化反應.意識到自己成了生產機器，而情感被全部擱置。
不要讓對個人成功的幻想取代了自己的真實能力。
遇到困難時，不要通過尋找新的工作來逃避困難，也不要無視失敗或者抱怨批評自己的人。
意識到自己常常會把情感的快樂延遲。「我完成了下一個推銷任務後，就會快樂。」
I DECIDED TO SHORT HONDA FOR IT RUINED THE MARKET STRATEGY (HMC : $38)
2012 Honda Civic used to be my baby car for a year. I really love it, fancy, super fuel efficient and treinpower is well loaded.
If my memory serves me right, I have no second thought when I was doing the car shopping in 2012.
Yet, when I was struggling with the Acura or Civic, car shopping recently.
You have no idea of the impact of the long-term journey
Acts 17:26
God determined the time sets for each of us the exact places where we should live.
That have a lot to do with where you live at what time.
Your destiny is connected with others
Hebrews 12:1-29 ESV / 4
Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons? “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him
Psalm 31:24
To determine whether an individual is in the business of trading, as a Sole Proprietor, the IRS looks at three main factors.
You must seek to profit from daily market movements in the prices of securities,
Your activity must be substantial, and
You must carry on the activity with continuity and regularity
Co-dependence
PPL who are not mature enough to be responsible for their own life.
In a way, you want to rely on others to make decision for you to avoid the consequence.
This type of person is not mature enough to jump into the marriage for real.
So need to be self control and start to be more responsible for your life.
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